My wife was kind enough to abandon all of my belongings at our old house when she moved this past weekend. I need to now arrange for a truck and an additional storage unit for all my extra stuff. I don't need the things she left - for the most part it is garage stuff that is nice to have when you have a garage. Right now I don't even have a home is it will not be doing me much good. She did leave me most of the things I said I wanted which was a good idea. It leaves us less to argue about in the divorce.
Now we can focus on the larger issues of custody and her slanderous assault on my character. I cannot wait to have our day in court. It would almost be anticlimactic to make a deal outside of court for her to recant her testimony. Something tells me she will be foolish enough to press her luck. I almost hope she does. While I don't wish for anybody to have to deal with the hell I have been through, I'd love to be able to expose her evil side to the world. Let there be no doubt of what she is and what she has done. She has destroyed our family with her unstable and downright mean behavior. Now that I have the benefit of an outstanding witness and a no-nonsense attorney, custody of my girls is entirely possible. That would be the best thing for them. I'm no genius when it comes to kids but I am a good dad. I know my girls quite well, I am level-headed and I love them more than life itself. If living with the agony of my wife's instability and rage all these years doesn't prove that, I don't know what else ever would.
I am angry with my wife and certainly have every right to be but I am not a monster. I don't want her to have to go through life with a black mark on her record. That would serve nobody well, especially my children. With her aspiring to be a teacher, it would be an instant death-sentence. No school will hire a batterer. She deserves to be punished but I would rather this not happen. I would prefer she get the help she needs, admit what she has done to me and become a better person. Everyone would benefit from that arrangement. I am still trying to forgive but I will NEVER forget. I have every right to be angry but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
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Your experience and pain from your false accuser resembles the character of the star witnesses that perjured themselves to only fulfill their personal agenda's in our case. To be able to tell such horrific stories , cause so much damage and with no remorse is unsettling to say the least. Scary, these a-moral types will stop at nothing. May you have a speedy recovery and find peace on the other side of this experience!
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